Find kinky women in Portsmouth

I practice polyamory but currently have no active partners. I’m fresh out of a monogamous relationship and absolutely NOT looking for a traditional boyfriend/girlfriend dynamic or exclusivity. If you want a traditional relationship, we aren't a match! Not rushing anything—just exploring, staying independent, and looking to meet up in person.Ready to rediscover the kinky parts of myself that have been on the back burner. Curious, open-minded, a little reckless in the fun way, and love good company, smoking, and late-night conversations. I'm looking for a kinky FWB/play partner to smoke with, go to gigs/events/munches with, and keep the physical connection casual. On the kink side, I want a Dom who has strong direction and takes control—no pleasure doms or hesitation, please. I am into more extreme *** kinks and want to explore those safely after we’ve spent some time getting to know each other. Let's talk energy, limits, and favorite events! Outside of kink: I need someone I can talk forever with. I love video games, comics, most anime, and action/horror movies. Music-wise, I’m into rock, heavy metal, and 2000s pop, and I love hearing other people's tastes. Let’s grab tea and see some art, take the ferry to the museums, get breakfast, hit up a farmers market, or just wander around the woods. If you’re nerdy we’ll probably get along!
Female (21) Portsmouth, Virginia
33F, Submissive, polyamorous open to short term or long term, casual or committed, just no one night stands. Must be 420 friendly bonus if you partake as well. I am 5'4" 250lbs, I am not skinny, I am pretty with lots of curves if that is your thing then I'm just your type 😉 💕 Still exploring kink, looking for partners to get to know and explore with, we can explore your interests as well!
Female (33) Portsmouth, Virginia
I’m Hope, I’m 28 and bisexual. I’m part of a married couple that’s searching for a lady to have fun with us from time to time. We love having a good time and going out for dates. We are 420 friendly!
Female (28) Portsmouth, Virginia
open relationship. dom me, I like it rough. Just don't be an asshole and think you're the best. I don't respond to creepy messages so if that's your schtick, get lost. otherwise im pretty open. I may not answer, don't take it personal. I get a lot in a day. (always open to a sugar daddy if that's something you wish to persue) check me out of fetlife alelevel
Female (24) Portsmouth, Virginia
* only interested in non-smokers due to anaphylaxis * Polyamorous | Pansexual | Demisexual My Standard for Connection 🧘‍♀️ Mind & Body: I value connections where emotional depth and physical presence are linked. 🏡 The Foundation: For me, intellectual intimacy feels hollow without shared warmth. I need to be truly understood before I can be physically close. 🥅 The Goal: I thrive when I am both emotionally seen and tenderly held. I look for the "mundane magic" where good conversation feeds the soul and a quiet, non-sexual presence calms the body. The Vibe 🔎 Identity: I am a servitude-oriented submissive and Little ABDL pup. 🧎‍♀️ The Drop: In submission, the outside world melts away. I focus entirely on the moment. 💗 Current Dynamics: I am happily secure with a Mommy Domme and a soft Daddy Dom. I am now looking to expand my inner circle. 🌎 Trust: Once I feel secure, I delegate "environmental awareness" to my partner. I trust you to manage the space so I can fully let go. What I Crave 🐾 Leadership: I am looking for a partner (any gender) with a natural, decisive presence. ⚡Energy over Labels: I value your energy and willing leadership more than specific labels. 🧽 Acts of Service: I find bliss in the quiet devotion of servitude. This includes cleaning, fetching, and waiting on those I trust. 🦖 Personality: I am dedicated to my tasks, but I also love playful, bratty banter. The Logistics 🐶 Dynamic: Servitude Submissive & little Pup (Service > Sex). ️ Play Style: Comfortable with being naked, bound, or flogged in vetted, private spaces once trust is built. 🌎 Environment: Private homes or vetted dungeons only. 🏡 Foundation: Enthusiastic consent and clear boundaries are mandatory. In summary: I prioritize and deeply value a connection where emotional depth and tactile presence are inextricably linked. I’ve realized that I don't thrive in dynamics that separate the two; for me, the mind and body are a single landscape where intellectual intimacy feels hollow without shared warmth. I am committed to nurturing a standard for connection where being truly understood is the foundation for physical closeness, as I need the synergy of being both emotionally seen and tenderly held to feel secure. I choose to focus my energy on that rare, mundane magic where our conversation feeds the soul and a quiet, non-sexual presence calms the body. Does this feel like a firm enough anchor for your journal, or would you like to tweak the ending to be more about self-protection? The future: One day I will want a nesting partner that can respect all that and never try to make me less than to fit in places I don't belong. For now I am not ready for a big leap of a search for or reality of a nesting partner but the idea always lingers in the back of my mind. If you made it this far and would like a tip for breaking the Ice🧊 I am a total sucker🍭 for corny Dad jokes and good humor. Bonus points if you enjoy enjoy receiving info dumps🗄️ about my interest.
Female (39) Portsmouth, Virginia
looking to meet new people and have fun but ultimately would like to have a connection that turns into a relationship (if you don’t have at least two photos on your profile I’m assuming your a fake profile and not messaging back lol)
Female (29) Portsmouth, Virginia
Hi there, I’m Fern 🌿 Brat. Bookworm. Chaos gremlin with a soft spot for trouble — and I promise, I’m worth every bit of it. I’m always down for some harmless flirting, just be respectful and understanding. I love connection, chemistry, and a bit of playful tension. Still new-ish to the kink world, but I’ve learned plenty about what makes me melt and what earns a firm “no”. I’m a curious brat with a big heart, a filthy imagination, and an ADHD brain that tends to wander — usually straight into something deliciously inappropriate. Expect plenty of smutty thoughts, cheeky humor, and unfiltered ADHD energy — it’s part of my charm, really 🤭 I’m here to learn, laugh, and maybe tempt you a bit along the way. Be kind. Be genuine. Don’t be boring. Women get first dibs on my attention 💋 PS: Yes I have one 🔵 if you ask nicely I might just share the link 😘
Female (22) Portsmouth, Virginia
I’m 5’7 give me a shorter girl with a feisty attitude and I’ll eat that for breakfast lunch and dinner and dessert if you deserve it! nothing serious just one nights or FWB
Female (27) Portsmouth, Virginia
My partner and I are looking to explore adding a woman to our relationship long term, as a throuple. A lady to go on dates, travel, and just have quiet Sundays with. I am pansexual, with a hard sapphic lean, and he is hetero. We love live music, good cocktails, junk shops, and seeing as much of the world as we can. We’re looking for much more than a playmate - we want to win a woman’s heart.
Female (53) Portsmouth, Virginia
Spicy but ohhh so sweet at the end 🥵*** Just a mouthy brat looking for some entertainment 😌☺️
Female (28) Portsmouth, Virginia
I am a polyamorous ADHD gremlin princess. I have a wonderful husband and an amazing boyfriend, though my boyfriend lives out of state and I only see him every other week. I would like to find somebody that is closer that I could eventually call my boyfriend and have a D/s dynamic with. I'm never on this app but you can reach out to me on my fet profile Lilsubpersephone. A little bit about myself I'm a bit nerdy I love gaming, music, Disney, and horror. Talk nerdy to me. I also just started going to the gym and I really like it, so if you are a gym person that is a plus!! If you're serious about this and you've read this far then know that there are a set of rules that must be followed and safety is the most important thing to all of my partners. You must be old enough to know what you're looking for I'm not here to play games. Kids might be a deal breaker depends on how well we vibe. Testing must be done before anything physical happens. I was tested 7/2025 and prefer tests within 6 months. If you currently have other partners, would prefer that they are also tested. This will be a trial by error we'll see how it goes.
Female (39) Portsmouth, Virginia
I'm a pretty outgoing person. I love meeting new people and doing new things. I want to learn all i can and am happy to learn from whoever will teach. the bdsm community and kink as a topic is endlessly fascinating to me and can talk about it at length In complete honesty, I dont really know what I'm looking for, but I know I'd like some new adventures also, I am really tired of being the teacher in everything, i am knowledgeable in certain respects, but that doesn't mean i want to teach every time, please
Female (27) Portsmouth, Virginia

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I’m Hope, I’m 28 and bisexual. I’m part of a married couple that’s searching for a lady to have fun with us from time to time. We love having a good time and going out for dates. We are 420 friendly!
Female (28) Portsmouth, Virginia
I practice polyamory but currently have no active partners. I’m fresh out of a monogamous relationship and absolutely NOT looking for a traditional boyfriend/girlfriend dynamic or exclusivity. If you want a traditional relationship, we aren't a match! Not rushing anything—just exploring, staying independent, and looking to meet up in person.Ready to rediscover the kinky parts of myself that have been on the back burner. Curious, open-minded, a little reckless in the fun way, and love good company, smoking, and late-night conversations. I'm looking for a kinky FWB/play partner to smoke with, go to gigs/events/munches with, and keep the physical connection casual. On the kink side, I want a Dom who has strong direction and takes control—no pleasure doms or hesitation, please. I am into more extreme *** kinks and want to explore those safely after we’ve spent some time getting to know each other. Let's talk energy, limits, and favorite events! Outside of kink: I need someone I can talk forever with. I love video games, comics, most anime, and action/horror movies. Music-wise, I’m into rock, heavy metal, and 2000s pop, and I love hearing other people's tastes. Let’s grab tea and see some art, take the ferry to the museums, get breakfast, hit up a farmers market, or just wander around the woods. If you’re nerdy we’ll probably get along!
Female (21) Portsmouth, Virginia
33F, Submissive, polyamorous open to short term or long term, casual or committed, just no one night stands. Must be 420 friendly bonus if you partake as well. I am 5'4" 250lbs, I am not skinny, I am pretty with lots of curves if that is your thing then I'm just your type 😉 💕 Still exploring kink, looking for partners to get to know and explore with, we can explore your interests as well!
Female (33) Portsmouth, Virginia
I’m 5’7 give me a shorter girl with a feisty attitude and I’ll eat that for breakfast lunch and dinner and dessert if you deserve it! nothing serious just one nights or FWB
Female (27) Portsmouth, Virginia
My partner and I are looking to explore adding a woman to our relationship long term, as a throuple. A lady to go on dates, travel, and just have quiet Sundays with. I am pansexual, with a hard sapphic lean, and he is hetero. We love live music, good cocktails, junk shops, and seeing as much of the world as we can. We’re looking for much more than a playmate - we want to win a woman’s heart.
Female (53) Portsmouth, Virginia
looking to meet new people and have fun but ultimately would like to have a connection that turns into a relationship (if you don’t have at least two photos on your profile I’m assuming your a fake profile and not messaging back lol)
Female (29) Portsmouth, Virginia
Spicy but ohhh so sweet at the end 🥵*** Just a mouthy brat looking for some entertainment 😌☺️
Female (28) Portsmouth, Virginia
open relationship. dom me, I like it rough. Just don't be an asshole and think you're the best. I don't respond to creepy messages so if that's your schtick, get lost. otherwise im pretty open. I may not answer, don't take it personal. I get a lot in a day. (always open to a sugar daddy if that's something you wish to persue) check me out of fetlife alelevel
Female (24) Portsmouth, Virginia
Hi there, I’m Fern 🌿 Brat. Bookworm. Chaos gremlin with a soft spot for trouble — and I promise, I’m worth every bit of it. I’m always down for some harmless flirting, just be respectful and understanding. I love connection, chemistry, and a bit of playful tension. Still new-ish to the kink world, but I’ve learned plenty about what makes me melt and what earns a firm “no”. I’m a curious brat with a big heart, a filthy imagination, and an ADHD brain that tends to wander — usually straight into something deliciously inappropriate. Expect plenty of smutty thoughts, cheeky humor, and unfiltered ADHD energy — it’s part of my charm, really 🤭 I’m here to learn, laugh, and maybe tempt you a bit along the way. Be kind. Be genuine. Don’t be boring. Women get first dibs on my attention 💋 PS: Yes I have one 🔵 if you ask nicely I might just share the link 😘
Female (22) Portsmouth, Virginia
I am a polyamorous ADHD gremlin princess. I have a wonderful husband and an amazing boyfriend, though my boyfriend lives out of state and I only see him every other week. I would like to find somebody that is closer that I could eventually call my boyfriend and have a D/s dynamic with. I'm never on this app but you can reach out to me on my fet profile Lilsubpersephone. A little bit about myself I'm a bit nerdy I love gaming, music, Disney, and horror. Talk nerdy to me. I also just started going to the gym and I really like it, so if you are a gym person that is a plus!! If you're serious about this and you've read this far then know that there are a set of rules that must be followed and safety is the most important thing to all of my partners. You must be old enough to know what you're looking for I'm not here to play games. Kids might be a deal breaker depends on how well we vibe. Testing must be done before anything physical happens. I was tested 7/2025 and prefer tests within 6 months. If you currently have other partners, would prefer that they are also tested. This will be a trial by error we'll see how it goes.
Female (39) Portsmouth, Virginia
I'm a pretty outgoing person. I love meeting new people and doing new things. I want to learn all i can and am happy to learn from whoever will teach. the bdsm community and kink as a topic is endlessly fascinating to me and can talk about it at length In complete honesty, I dont really know what I'm looking for, but I know I'd like some new adventures also, I am really tired of being the teacher in everything, i am knowledgeable in certain respects, but that doesn't mean i want to teach every time, please
Female (27) Portsmouth, Virginia
* only interested in non-smokers due to anaphylaxis * Polyamorous | Pansexual | Demisexual My Standard for Connection 🧘‍♀️ Mind & Body: I value connections where emotional depth and physical presence are linked. 🏡 The Foundation: For me, intellectual intimacy feels hollow without shared warmth. I need to be truly understood before I can be physically close. 🥅 The Goal: I thrive when I am both emotionally seen and tenderly held. I look for the "mundane magic" where good conversation feeds the soul and a quiet, non-sexual presence calms the body. The Vibe 🔎 Identity: I am a servitude-oriented submissive and Little ABDL pup. 🧎‍♀️ The Drop: In submission, the outside world melts away. I focus entirely on the moment. 💗 Current Dynamics: I am happily secure with a Mommy Domme and a soft Daddy Dom. I am now looking to expand my inner circle. 🌎 Trust: Once I feel secure, I delegate "environmental awareness" to my partner. I trust you to manage the space so I can fully let go. What I Crave 🐾 Leadership: I am looking for a partner (any gender) with a natural, decisive presence. ⚡Energy over Labels: I value your energy and willing leadership more than specific labels. 🧽 Acts of Service: I find bliss in the quiet devotion of servitude. This includes cleaning, fetching, and waiting on those I trust. 🦖 Personality: I am dedicated to my tasks, but I also love playful, bratty banter. The Logistics 🐶 Dynamic: Servitude Submissive & little Pup (Service > Sex). ️ Play Style: Comfortable with being naked, bound, or flogged in vetted, private spaces once trust is built. 🌎 Environment: Private homes or vetted dungeons only. 🏡 Foundation: Enthusiastic consent and clear boundaries are mandatory. In summary: I prioritize and deeply value a connection where emotional depth and tactile presence are inextricably linked. I’ve realized that I don't thrive in dynamics that separate the two; for me, the mind and body are a single landscape where intellectual intimacy feels hollow without shared warmth. I am committed to nurturing a standard for connection where being truly understood is the foundation for physical closeness, as I need the synergy of being both emotionally seen and tenderly held to feel secure. I choose to focus my energy on that rare, mundane magic where our conversation feeds the soul and a quiet, non-sexual presence calms the body. Does this feel like a firm enough anchor for your journal, or would you like to tweak the ending to be more about self-protection? The future: One day I will want a nesting partner that can respect all that and never try to make me less than to fit in places I don't belong. For now I am not ready for a big leap of a search for or reality of a nesting partner but the idea always lingers in the back of my mind. If you made it this far and would like a tip for breaking the Ice🧊 I am a total sucker🍭 for corny Dad jokes and good humor. Bonus points if you enjoy enjoy receiving info dumps🗄️ about my interest.
Female (39) Portsmouth, Virginia

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