Mistress Roxanne. Elegant sadist. Sensual ***or. I thrive on control, obedience, and the sweet sound of surrender. Selective. Discreet. Uncompromising. Approach with respect or remain silent. Kneel wisely.
Fresh out of a relationship and ready to rediscover the kinky parts of myself that have been on the back burner. Curious, open-minded, a little reckless in the fun way, and always interested in meeting people who enjoy good company, late-night conversations, and smoking lol. Not rushing anythingโjust exploring and enjoying the journey.
I'm a pretty outgoing person. I love meeting new people and doing new things. I want to learn all i can and am happy to learn from whoever will teach. the bdsm community and kink as a topic is endlessly fascinating to me and can talk about it at length
In complete honesty, I dont really know what I'm looking for, but I know I'd like some new adventures
also, I am really tired of being the teacher in everything, i am knowledgeable in certain respects, but that doesn't mean i want to teach every time, please
33F, Submissive, polyamorous open to short term or long term, casual or committed, just no one night stands. Must be 420 friendly bonus if you partake as well.
I am 5'4" 250lbs, I am not skinny, I am pretty with lots of curves if that is your thing then I'm just your type ๐ ๐
Still exploring kink, looking for partners to get to know and explore with, we can explore your interests as well!
Hi there, Iโm Fern ๐ฟ
Brat. Bookworm. Chaos gremlin with a soft spot for trouble โ and I promise, Iโm worth every bit of it.
Iโm always down for some harmless flirting, just be respectful and understanding. I love connection, chemistry, and a bit of playful tension.
Still new-ish to the kink world, but Iโve learned plenty about what makes me melt and what earns a firm โnoโ. Iโm a curious brat with a big heart, a filthy imagination, and an ADHD brain that tends to wander โ usually straight into something deliciously inappropriate. Expect plenty of smutty thoughts, cheeky humor, and unfiltered ADHD energy โ itโs part of my charm, really ๐คญ
Iโm here to learn, laugh, and maybe tempt you a bit along the way.
Be kind. Be genuine. Donโt be boring.
Women get first dibs on my attention ๐
PS: Yes I have one ๐ต if you ask nicely I might just share the link ๐
My partner and I are looking to explore adding a woman to our relationship long term, as a throuple. A lady to go on dates, travel, and just have quiet Sundays with. I am pansexual, with a hard sapphic lean, and he is hetero. We love live music, good cocktails, junk shops, and seeing as much of the world as we can. Weโre looking for much more than a playmate - we want to win a womanโs heart.
open relationship. dom me, I like it rough. Just don't be an asshole and think you're the best. I don't respond to creepy messages so if that's your schtick, get lost. otherwise im pretty open. I may not answer, don't take it personal. I get a lot in a day.
(always open to a sugar daddy if that's something you wish to persue)
check me out of fetlife alelevel
Iโm 5โ7 give me a shorter girl with a feisty attitude and Iโll eat that for breakfast lunch and dinner and dessert if you deserve it! nothing serious just one nights or FWB
looking to meet new people and have fun but ultimately would like to have a connection that turns into a relationship (if you donโt have at least two photos on your profile Iโm assuming your a fake profile and not messaging back lol)
* only interested in non-smokers due to anaphylaxis *
Polyamorous | Pansexual | Demisexual
My Standard for Connection
๐งโโ๏ธ Mind & Body: I value connections where emotional depth and physical presence are linked.
๐ก The Foundation: For me, intellectual intimacy feels hollow without shared warmth. I need to be truly understood before I can be physically close.
๐ฅ The Goal: I thrive when I am both emotionally seen and tenderly held. I look for the "mundane magic" where good conversation feeds the soul and a quiet, non-sexual presence calms the body.
The Vibe
๐ Identity: I am a servitude-oriented submissive and Little ABDL pup.
๐งโโ๏ธ The Drop: In submission, the outside world melts away. I focus entirely on the moment.
๐ Current Dynamics: I am happily secure with a Mommy Domme and a soft Daddy Dom. I am now looking to expand my inner circle.
๐ Trust: Once I feel secure, I delegate "environmental awareness" to my partner. I trust you to manage the space so I can fully let go.
What I Crave
๐พ Leadership: I am looking for a partner (any gender) with a natural, decisive presence.
โกEnergy over Labels: I value your energy and willing leadership more than specific labels.
๐งฝ Acts of Service: I find bliss in the quiet devotion of servitude. This includes cleaning, fetching, and waiting on those I trust.
๐ฆ Personality: I am dedicated to my tasks, but I also love playful, bratty banter.
The Logistics
๐ถ Dynamic: Servitude Submissive & little Pup (Service > Sex).
๏ธ Play Style: Comfortable with being naked, bound, or flogged in vetted, private spaces once trust is built.
๐ Environment: Private homes or vetted dungeons only.
๐ก Foundation: Enthusiastic consent and clear boundaries are mandatory.
In summary:
I prioritize and deeply value a connection where emotional depth and tactile presence are inextricably linked. Iโve realized that I don't thrive in dynamics that separate the two; for me, the mind and body are a single landscape where intellectual intimacy feels hollow without shared warmth. I am committed to nurturing a standard for connection where being truly understood is the foundation for physical closeness, as I need the synergy of being both emotionally seen and tenderly held to feel secure. I choose to focus my energy on that rare, mundane magic where our conversation feeds the soul and a quiet, non-sexual presence calms the body.
Does this feel like a firm enough anchor for your journal, or would you like to tweak the ending to be more about self-protection?
The future:
One day I will want a nesting partner that can respect all that and never try to make me less than to fit in places I don't belong.
For now I am not ready for a big leap of a search for or reality of a nesting partner but the idea always lingers in the back of my mind.
If you made it this far and would like a tip for breaking the Ice๐ง I am a total sucker๐ญ for corny Dad jokes and good humor. Bonus points if you enjoy enjoy receiving info dumps๐๏ธ about my interest.
Mistress Roxanne. Elegant sadist. Sensual ***or. I thrive on control, obedience, and the sweet sound of surrender. Selective. Discreet. Uncompromising. Approach with respect or remain silent. Kneel wisely.
Fresh out of a relationship and ready to rediscover the kinky parts of myself that have been on the back burner. Curious, open-minded, a little reckless in the fun way, and always interested in meeting people who enjoy good company, late-night conversations, and smoking lol. Not rushing anythingโjust exploring and enjoying the journey.
33F, Submissive, polyamorous open to short term or long term, casual or committed, just no one night stands. Must be 420 friendly bonus if you partake as well.
I am 5'4" 250lbs, I am not skinny, I am pretty with lots of curves if that is your thing then I'm just your type ๐ ๐
Still exploring kink, looking for partners to get to know and explore with, we can explore your interests as well!
Iโm 5โ7 give me a shorter girl with a feisty attitude and Iโll eat that for breakfast lunch and dinner and dessert if you deserve it! nothing serious just one nights or FWB
My partner and I are looking to explore adding a woman to our relationship long term, as a throuple. A lady to go on dates, travel, and just have quiet Sundays with. I am pansexual, with a hard sapphic lean, and he is hetero. We love live music, good cocktails, junk shops, and seeing as much of the world as we can. Weโre looking for much more than a playmate - we want to win a womanโs heart.
looking to meet new people and have fun but ultimately would like to have a connection that turns into a relationship (if you donโt have at least two photos on your profile Iโm assuming your a fake profile and not messaging back lol)
open relationship. dom me, I like it rough. Just don't be an asshole and think you're the best. I don't respond to creepy messages so if that's your schtick, get lost. otherwise im pretty open. I may not answer, don't take it personal. I get a lot in a day.
(always open to a sugar daddy if that's something you wish to persue)
check me out of fetlife alelevel
Hi there, Iโm Fern ๐ฟ
Brat. Bookworm. Chaos gremlin with a soft spot for trouble โ and I promise, Iโm worth every bit of it.
Iโm always down for some harmless flirting, just be respectful and understanding. I love connection, chemistry, and a bit of playful tension.
Still new-ish to the kink world, but Iโve learned plenty about what makes me melt and what earns a firm โnoโ. Iโm a curious brat with a big heart, a filthy imagination, and an ADHD brain that tends to wander โ usually straight into something deliciously inappropriate. Expect plenty of smutty thoughts, cheeky humor, and unfiltered ADHD energy โ itโs part of my charm, really ๐คญ
Iโm here to learn, laugh, and maybe tempt you a bit along the way.
Be kind. Be genuine. Donโt be boring.
Women get first dibs on my attention ๐
PS: Yes I have one ๐ต if you ask nicely I might just share the link ๐
I'm a pretty outgoing person. I love meeting new people and doing new things. I want to learn all i can and am happy to learn from whoever will teach. the bdsm community and kink as a topic is endlessly fascinating to me and can talk about it at length
In complete honesty, I dont really know what I'm looking for, but I know I'd like some new adventures
also, I am really tired of being the teacher in everything, i am knowledgeable in certain respects, but that doesn't mean i want to teach every time, please
* only interested in non-smokers due to anaphylaxis *
Polyamorous | Pansexual | Demisexual
My Standard for Connection
๐งโโ๏ธ Mind & Body: I value connections where emotional depth and physical presence are linked.
๐ก The Foundation: For me, intellectual intimacy feels hollow without shared warmth. I need to be truly understood before I can be physically close.
๐ฅ The Goal: I thrive when I am both emotionally seen and tenderly held. I look for the "mundane magic" where good conversation feeds the soul and a quiet, non-sexual presence calms the body.
The Vibe
๐ Identity: I am a servitude-oriented submissive and Little ABDL pup.
๐งโโ๏ธ The Drop: In submission, the outside world melts away. I focus entirely on the moment.
๐ Current Dynamics: I am happily secure with a Mommy Domme and a soft Daddy Dom. I am now looking to expand my inner circle.
๐ Trust: Once I feel secure, I delegate "environmental awareness" to my partner. I trust you to manage the space so I can fully let go.
What I Crave
๐พ Leadership: I am looking for a partner (any gender) with a natural, decisive presence.
โกEnergy over Labels: I value your energy and willing leadership more than specific labels.
๐งฝ Acts of Service: I find bliss in the quiet devotion of servitude. This includes cleaning, fetching, and waiting on those I trust.
๐ฆ Personality: I am dedicated to my tasks, but I also love playful, bratty banter.
The Logistics
๐ถ Dynamic: Servitude Submissive & little Pup (Service > Sex).
๏ธ Play Style: Comfortable with being naked, bound, or flogged in vetted, private spaces once trust is built.
๐ Environment: Private homes or vetted dungeons only.
๐ก Foundation: Enthusiastic consent and clear boundaries are mandatory.
In summary:
I prioritize and deeply value a connection where emotional depth and tactile presence are inextricably linked. Iโve realized that I don't thrive in dynamics that separate the two; for me, the mind and body are a single landscape where intellectual intimacy feels hollow without shared warmth. I am committed to nurturing a standard for connection where being truly understood is the foundation for physical closeness, as I need the synergy of being both emotionally seen and tenderly held to feel secure. I choose to focus my energy on that rare, mundane magic where our conversation feeds the soul and a quiet, non-sexual presence calms the body.
Does this feel like a firm enough anchor for your journal, or would you like to tweak the ending to be more about self-protection?
The future:
One day I will want a nesting partner that can respect all that and never try to make me less than to fit in places I don't belong.
For now I am not ready for a big leap of a search for or reality of a nesting partner but the idea always lingers in the back of my mind.
If you made it this far and would like a tip for breaking the Ice๐ง I am a total sucker๐ญ for corny Dad jokes and good humor. Bonus points if you enjoy enjoy receiving info dumps๐๏ธ about my interest.
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